Little Actions, GIANT Impact

I begin this writing journey with the belief that knowledge and experiences are only powerful when they are shared to benefit someone’s life. We only live once, so make it positively impactful!

Once I realized this, I started to let go of my insecurity and the side of me that’s overly self-conscious. It compelled me to commit myself to action to share my knowledge and experiences. I found the courage to express the thoughts in my head, voice in my heart and spirit in my soul. I begin to believe that no matter how “small” our voice or how “little” our action seem to be, it’s still a significant one which could make a “giant” impact in our family, workplace, community and even the world!

Personally, I like the story of David and Goliath, where the little shepherd beat the giant with his wit and courage. While there are many interpretations of that story, for me, it signifies the Power of the Little, that we all can use to harness the little strengths within us or among people to generate massive power in an instance.

Remember, we are all unique beings. Each and everyone of us! Each individual has talents, natural gifts, and strengths that we can tap on to make a positive difference in this world. Our mission in this world is to unleash the power of the Giant within us – many Little actions, with their effects accumulated, lead to Giant impact in our lives and of those around us. That’s the Power of the Little!

As I went through my learning journey all these years, I started to appreciate the effectiveness of this power more. Personally, I have experienced its positive impact in my life and other individuals’. I have also seen the Power of Little being harnessed for the greater good of the society.

Here are some of the ways the Power of the Little is leveraged to better our lives and the world we live in:

#1 Little progress each day leads to massive power one day.

I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.

Bruce Lee

Do not estimate the little progress you make each day, for these little progress when added up will lead you to a certain direction which determines your destiny. Same for forming a new habit. If you want to build the habit of exercising, say running, start with 2 km, 3 km and slowly adds up. You don’t start with 10 km run. I’m sure you will give up or burn out pretty soon, if you have not been exercising. If you have just started to hit the gym, start small and slowly increase the weights you carry. Break down your goal into smaller goals or milestones and give yourself a little reward when you hit each milestone. It’s important to celebrate small wins to keep you motivated along the path to success.

Another philosophy is kaizen, a Japanese word which means “change for better”, but most often referred to as the spirit of continuous improvement. We don’t need to achieve a big goal to feel great about ourselves. As long as we make progress each day, regardless of a small or huge, we will eventually get there. The key is to GET STARTED! Start small, and improve each day. What you do consistently, you become.

#2 Many little voices combined, lead to a giant movement.

The most recent global movement, which began in the entertainment industry and created a wave of voices and fights for women empowerment and rights against sexual harassment. What is it? I bet you immediately know what it is!

#MeToo and #Time’sUp have gone viral – thanks to the power of social media, not because it’s a catchy term or phrase or started by an influential female figure or president in the world. It started with just one person, who dared to speak up and stand up for herself and others who have gone through similar abuses but kept silent. Then, few voices appeared and more and more voices combined, leading to the tipping point of “Weinstein effect”. These “little” voices that were timid and afraid, finally found their power and strength in the group, against the “Goliaths” , the men who preyed on the vulnerabilities of women in the industry. Thanks to these many little voices, #MeToo has spread all over the world, across the regions, even to Asia, and it went beyond the entertainment industry to common workplaces in any part of the world.

#3 Little beings with great determination are the strongest.

One of the most inspiring person I have ever seen in my life is none other than Nick Vujicic, the epitome of someone living the Life Without Limit.  I believe he inspires not only me, but millions of people in this world.

If I fail, I try again, and again, and again. If you fail, are you going to try again? The human spirit can handle much worse than we realize. It matters how you are going to finish. Are you going to finish strong?

Nick Vujicic

Few years back, I had the privilege of watching Nick speak live in a conference at the front rows. I would have to say that out of so many speakers in the seminars and conferences I attended, he is the only one who speaks to my soul. He touched my spirit just with his presence and words, the purest I have ever heard out from one’s heart.

Imagine, if you were to put Nick Vujicic and Tony Robbins on the stage, side by side, Tony will be the “giant Goliath”, while Nick will seem like the “little David”. But, if you have read his books, watched his videos or even better, listened to him live, you will never believe that your own capability is only what you have and who you are right now. Our potential is only limited by our belief. If a man without limbs could live his life with purpose and passion, touching lives around the world and building lovely family of his own, what then, can we still complain about or what excuses can we give ourselves for living a miserable and small lives. We simply have no rights to do that.

You may be conditioned to believe that you are small in physique, thoughts, talents, capabilities, and the list goes on and on. STOP believing that way! Break your mental and emotional patterns, and start taking ownership of your life! Remember, “little” beings with GREAT determination are the strongest!

#4 Little kind acts go a long way to create huge impact in someone’s life.

There has been proliferation of activities in the crowdfunding sector, thanks to the sharing economy and crowd-based businesses. The first thing that comes to your mind when you see or hear “crowdfunding” might be start-ups who are raising funds to launch a prototype or products. However, there is a sector which has been gaining needed funds by leveraging on online crowdfunding platforms – the charity or non-profit organizations.

I have worked in the non-profit sector for a couple of years, serving the poor and needy disabled adults and elderly in a nursing home. Most of the residents in the home come from families that belong to the lower income brackets of the society. The costs of medical and nursing care are high and many of them could not afford the monthly bills and have to rely on private and government assistance to pay for the care of their loved ones. Those that I have seen are just a small segment of the society with deep financial needs. There are many more who face similar difficulties and nobody knows, especially the elderly who are socially isolated.

The younger generations who are tech-savvy could tap on these platforms to raise funds for their loved ones, grandparents, parents or kids, or even for a cause they feel strongly about, should the needs arise. $1, $10, $50 or $100 of donations, it’s your call. You can give without sacrificing your own needs. It’s the intention and small actions that make a big difference for the needy. If each donor gives $1 and there are a thousand of people with such intention, then that’s $1,000! That’s the beauty and power of little kind acts which go a long long way to create a huge impact in someone’s life.

#5 Little failures are a source of lasting success.

Have you ever felt like there’s no way things could get better, even after you’ve tried to improve it, whether it’s a job or relationship? You feel like there’s simply no hope in trying, there’s no chance that you’ll get better results after multiple attempts, and finally, you decided this is it! You’re so damn fed up with your circumstances and think that everything and everybody is against you, your way of thinking and doing things. You decided to put a stop to it, end the suffering, and you quit, you give up! Sounds or feels familiar? If yes, then you’re just like the normal human beings in the world. It’s easier to give up than to get back up. It’s human NATURE. BUT, it’s not human POTENTIAL!

Let’s make this clear. I am not saying you should not give up at all. There are many things we should give up, such as disempowering habits, thoughts, emotions, old ways of doing things which hinder our progress or ineffective methods or strategies of achieving outcomes we want. But, you DO NOT give up your dreams, goals and the life you have always wanted! You give up the HOWs, not the WHAT and WHY. If there are roadblocks along the path to your goal or success, you don’t change your destination of getting there, you change your routes or ways of going there. You don’t change your dreams and goals so easily.

I have not failed. I’ve just found out 10,000 ways that won’t work.  – Thomas Edison

Recently, I took on a 21-day push-up challenge with a buddy of mine. We have to do it every day for 21 consecutive days or we have to restart if there’s a single day we did not do the push-up we committed. We announced this to a group of friends and have to report our daily accomplishment. My buddy who has committed 20 push-ups a day met his first obstacle on the second day of challenge. He almost gave up. But thanks to encouragements from the group, he persisted. Not only did he persevere and complete the push-ups every day, he even did an “upsize” from 20 to 30 push-ups! You see, what my buddy faced was a little setback in the beginning, and if he has given up that moment, he would not have built his muscles to do 30 push-ups every day. Our setbacks or failures, whether big or small (we can determine the size of how we see our failures, by the way), serve as feedback that things are not working and there could be something wrong with the way we approach it. We can choose to accept the feedback, think about how we can do better, and quickly move on with it. Beating yourself up when you receive feedback will not help to solve the issues and make you feel better. Start embracing the feedback you receive in life, be thankful about it, and focus on getting better, and you will head to a direction with more possibilities and excitements.

The Voice of Little Giant

The future of this world will very much depend on what the people of this generation do with the talents and resources we have. When I say generation, I mean the Millennials specifically. I am a member of the Millennials.

We grew up in time where things are changing at a pace that all our predecessors have never seen before. We are blessed to be living in a world with such a huge space and yet, feel connected with each other across the globe, as if we are living in the same neighborhood. We enjoy the vast benefits of the advanced technology around us, which makes us the most powerful generation of human beings since Man were created. We also have great responsibilities to make the world that’s passed to us a place worth living for our next generations. We may not be as rich or experienced as our predecessors, but we are capable of making an impact as great, if not greater, than anyone before us. We can not only move the Earth and mountains, but most importantly, we have to use our greatest strength, talents and capacity to move hearts and souls. Making impact is useless, touching lives is the ultimate purpose. That’s the reason I always say make a “positive” impact, not just impact.

Millennials are the many Little human beings, when gather all our minds, hearts and souls, into building the world as a better place for mankind and living things on Earth, create the Giant force that will shape our future.

The Voice of Little Giant

That’s where the name of this blog comes from. It comes from the belief that the world will be shaped by the Little Giants of our generation, if each of us align our purpose, passion, talents and identity, the core of who we truly are, with what we do every day to make a positive difference in someone’s life. That’s the Voice!

Do share you thoughts with me and give me some feedback and encouragements.

Deeply grateful!

 

The Voice

Have you ever wondered or asked yourself these questions:

“Who am I? Who am I exactly?”

If you have thought about it, you were probably searching for a direction in life, meaning or finding your niche. You were probably facing a major crisis or event in life, at a crossroad, feeling a sense of doubt or loss of direction in certain aspects of your life. These questions serve to evaluate our identity, purpose of existence, values and beliefs, strengths and talents.

WHO AM I ?

This is a question that pops up in various stages of our life, but unfortunately, no one has any answer to it, except YOU. Each of us is an unique individual – we are the ONE & ONLY edition made by our Creator. Hence, no one except “I” / “Me”, is responsible to find out the answer for ourselves.

Try this.. Find three persons around you and ask them “Who are you?”, and notice how they will react and answer you.

If you have tried that, you’ll probably see that some may give you a puzzled look, surprised by what you asked, or some may pause for a while, maybe few minutes, and thought deeply about it. Some of them may ask you, “What do you mean?”. For some who answered you, they may tell you what they do as a profession, as a hobby, their passion, they are a father or mother of how many kids, etc.

Now, it’s your turn to ask yourself, “Who am I?”

Pause…and think for a short while.

Congratulations! If this is the first time you are seriously thinking about it, you are beginning to evaluate your identity, values and beliefs, strengths and potential, and gain more awareness about yourself.

As you become clearer about who you really are, you’ll be better able to decide what is best for you – the first time around.

Oprah Winfrey

Who Am I EXACTLY ?

No one in this world is born exactly the same. Not even twins. There is no single answer to this question, generally. However, each of us does have an identity which determines  our priorities in life, what values and beliefs we choose to live by, what we do with our talents and how we translate these into our behaviours every day and moment of our life. Each of us has a unique VOICE.

Voice is the totality of our beliefs about things that matter to us a lot, values and principles which guide how we treat people and do things, our talents, strengths and even weaknesses (yes, even vulnerable part of you), and how we carry ourselves in anywhere we go. It captures the essence of our identity. When we project our voice to the world, we are portraying our identity in its real form, not the mask that we put on to cover our ego!

To know who you really are, and what your true voice is, you need to be really, really HONEST with yourself!

One of the main reasons we are not happy in work, relationships and life, is simply due to the misalignment between what we do in respective areas of our life and the true essence that lies within us.  We are not projecting our voice and presenting our real identity. All blames, criticisms, complaints and excuses are merely noises which bury our voice and mask our ego further. The effects of these noises, which distract us from our awareness, may seem small on a daily basis. However, these effects of passiveness or “in-actions” added up from day to day, lead to your destiny.

Values and beliefs are topics which seem to be complex to some or most of the people. However, they guide how we treat our family, friends, colleagues, business partners and even strangers. They are critical in determining how we act as a person, father, mother, son or daughter, partner, friend, etc. They can drive us to great success or doom us to ultimate failure. Needless to emphasize, they are key components that shape who we are, what we do and therefore, the outcomes we achieve in life.

To further evaluate who you are exactly, start asking yourself “What are the values which govern your decisions and actions in relationship, career, health, money and life?” For a start, just list them down. Don’t worry about right or wrong, as we don’t judge here. The beginning of transformation to bring yourself to greater heights is the awareness of what brings you here in the first place.

Finding Your Voice

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.

Marianne Williamson

Once you recognize that there is a hidden voice within you, you start to ask:

“How do I find my voice?”

There are three important steps in the process of discovering the voice:

1. Believe that you are SIGNIFICANT.

When I first have the thought of writing a blog, there are many noises within me which I am still dealing with as I am writing this post. I doubt if someone is going to read this, whether someone in any corner of the world even cares to take a look at my blog. Beyond self-doubt, I gave myself so many reasons or excuses to avoid taking actions, just because I think that my voice is insignificant! I BELIEVEd that no one will pay attention to what I express about my thoughts, feelings and experience.

Our beliefs are shaped by our environment, upbringing, media, parents, friends and peers, our own or others’ experience, and basically all information we gather through our senses and filter in our mind. Beliefs can be empowering and disempowering. Empowering beliefs help mankind creates revolutions, while disempowering ones cause us to “be-little” ourselves, limit our potential, confine our imaginations and lower our self-worth and self-esteem. Hence, the first thing we need to do to uncover our hidden voice, is to truly and strongly believe that we are born to do GREAT things! We are each created to make a significant impact in the world. Every little thing we do, we do it with great love. We need to recognize that our voice is significant and it matters!

If I have continued to believe that I am insignificant, you probably would not be able to read this post now or this blog would not even exist.

2. Be AUTHENTIC. Accept and embrace your true self.

Honesty and transparency make you vulnerable. Be honest and transparent anyway.

Mother Theresa

Once we believe that we are significant and born to do great things, it could also cause some of us to think that we can’t afford to fail. Here is it, we were born to be REAL, not perfect! It’s natural to feel vulnerable to admit our mistakes, weaknesses and imperfection. However, it takes even more courage to accept our vulnerabilities and break through them to present the most beautiful version of our SELF to the world. Once we go beyond the fear of how people view or think about us, we start to discover our voice and have the courage to express them. We feel a sense of freedom!

As I click on the Publish button on this site, I know it’s not a perfect post. It’s not written with perfect writing skills by a perfect person. But, I know it’s real. Some people may like it, some may not, and some may dislike or disagree with it. If I am concerned about what other people’s views more than expressing my true feelings, then I will lose my voice in this world. I take this as a journey to learn to be authentic, to fail, get back up and grow, to embrace my fear, insecurity, vulnerabilities and develop the courage to express my true self and project my voice.

3. DECIDE to BE and GIVE your BEST!

One of the greatest gifts of human beings is the gift of choice. We are man of free will. We can always choose to react or respond. When we believe that we are born significant, it’s natural that we tend to feel significant and take significant actions to achieve great results. The act of believing is a result of making a choice.

Know that it’s your decisions, and not your conditions, that determine your destiny.

Anthony Robbins

One of my favourite personal development experts in the world is Tony Robbins. Particularly, I like what he said about action and decision. He said that every action is a cause set in motion, and its effect build on past effects to move us to a certain direction. Every direction leads to an ultimate destination – our DESTINY! But, what determines what actions we take, is our DECISION. The decisions we make each day will give us results, which if added up on a daily basis, shape our destiny.

Once we realize that there’s this voice lying within, we have a choice to continue living our life as a routine, repeating the same patterns in our work, personal relationships, health and life, or we can awaken the power of our voice and live each day with re-kindled passion, newfound purpose and significance. We can choose to live the life that’s crafted by our parents or loved ones, just to fulfill their expectations of us, or we can start taking ownership of our own life and embrace authenticity in every dimension of our life.

The CHOICE of believing that you’re significant, accepting all of you, and therefore, living the best version of yourself, your true self, and giving all you can to the community around you, the people you care and love, the cause you feel strongly about, touching lives and making a positive impact in this world, lies in your hands.

Remember, no one else, but YOU, are responsible and capable of making this decision.

When I am aware of the choices I have, I no longer fear how people will perceive what I express through my writing. I know I am a unique being, just like any other person in this world. We are all ordinary people with extraordinary capacity. We share many common traits as a human being, yet each of us has special gifts inside of us to be uncovered and shared. By realizing these, I begin my journey here to BE a better person each day and GIVE my best by sharing what I learn to benefit others, including you who’s reading my posts.

Just be aware that, we are all masterpiece-in-progress and growth is a lifelong process. Be patient and know that the little progress you make each day will lead to massive transformation in your life and others’. Just stay tuned!

May you find your VOICE and express it to unleash the Little Giant within you! Just remember to enjoy the journey.